A friend’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis may change how you spend time together, but it doesn't mean your friendship has to end. Someone living with Alzheimer's may need more patience, a little extra time to follow conversations, or support with familiar activities. Senior Helpers has put together some simple ways to stay connected, offer practical help, and let your friend know you're still there for them.

Be Patient with Changes in Behavior

Learning a little about Alzheimer's can make it easier to understand changes in your friend's behavior. Symptoms vary from person to person, and your friend may have good days and more difficult ones. Forgetting their name, repeating a question, or seeming unusually irritable may be related to the disease. Try not to take these moments personally or make your friend feel embarrassed. Give them time to respond and continue treating them with the same kindness and respect you always have.

Make Visits Comfortable and Enjoyable

A few small adjustments can make visits more pleasant for both of you. Consider these suggestions when spending time together:

• Choose a quiet, familiar place where your friend feels comfortable.
• Turn off the television or radio to reduce background noise.
• Keep visits relatively short if your friend gets tired or overwhelmed.
• Bring something familiar to share, such as old photographs, a favorite snack, or a familiar game.
• Time your visit when your friend is usually more alert and relaxed.

If your friend speaks another language at home, consider using it during your visits if that's what makes conversation easier. Familiar words and expressions can provide comfort when communication becomes more difficult.

Communicate With a Friend Living with Alzheimer's

Conversations may take longer when someone is living with Alzheimer's, so give your friend time to gather their thoughts. Speak clearly, use short sentences, and focus on one question at a time. If they struggle to remember a name or find the right word, resist the urge to finish every sentence for them.

You don't need to correct every mistaken detail or argue about something they remember differently. Instead, respond calmly and shift the conversation if they become frustrated. The Alzheimer's Association's 10 early signs and symptoms can also provide insight into some of the memory and communication changes your friend may experience.

Offer Practical Help Without Taking Over

Your friend may appreciate assistance with everyday tasks, but it's crucial to ask before stepping in. Here are a few ways you can offer support:

1. Offer to walk with them to nearby shops or appointments.
2. Call or visit regularly, especially when their family members are busy.
3. Invite them to lunch or save them a seat at a community gathering.
4. Let a family member know if you notice a concerning change, such as the stove being left on or mail going unopened.

Even a small favor can make a difference. You can also offer to spend time with your friend's family or give their regular caregiver a short break.

Senior Helpers Provides Companionship and Dementia Care at Home

Friendship and regular social contact can make daily life more enjoyable for someone living with memory loss. Senior Helpers Northern Queens provides personalized in-home care for seniors in Astoria, Long Island City, Woodside, Elmhurst, and Corona, including those living with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. Caregivers can support familiar routines and provide families with additional assistance at home. To discuss available services, contact us today!