A retired gentleman may have served in Korea, while a neighbor may have worked as a Navy nurse during the Vietnam era. Many communities have veterans whose stories are not often shared. This Veterans Day, on Wednesday, November 11, a visit or personal call can show veterans how much their service means. Reaching out to veterans gives neighbors a chance to share stories and recognize their service.

Find Out Who Served

Sometimes the people who served are already known, while other names may come up after a few questions. Community groups and senior centers may know which members are veterans. A friendly introduction from someone they both know can also make reaching out to veterans feel more comfortable. Ball caps and other service-related items may offer clues, but every branch and era deserves recognition.

Bring Something to Eat

Food can be a thoughtful way to show appreciation. A container of pozole or a tray of dumplings can express gratitude in a way many people understand. Before preparing a meal, ask about dietary restrictions, as many older adults follow a doctor's advice on salt intake or soft foods. They can then invite a veteran or neighbor to lunch and decide on a date later. If the first meal goes well, consider planning another gathering later in the month.

Reaching Out to Veterans Involves Listening

Let each veteran guide the conversation. Some may talk for an hour about basic training and the places they were stationed, while others may prefer to change the subject. Their choice deserves respect.

Avoid questions about combat or injuries. Instead, ask about life after military service, including past jobs and family experiences. As trust grows, veterans may feel more comfortable sharing personal memories.

For those interested in preserving these stories, reaching out to veterans can be a first step toward sharing their accounts with the Library of Congress Veterans History Project, which collects firsthand stories for future generations.

Long Days in a Quiet House

Reaching out to veterans can make a difference for those who live alone and go through long days with little conversation. Driving difficulties or friends moving closer to family can limit older adults' social interactions. Over time, isolation can affect mood, sleep, and physical health in older adults, veterans included.

Regular social contact can give them something to look forward to. A weekly call or a standing invitation for a morning walk can break up a quiet day and create a sense of connection. Even a ten-minute conversation after breakfast can make a difference.

Groups such as the American Legion provide peer support, and local Legion posts organize Buddy Checks to stay in touch with veterans. For questions about benefits, refer veterans to VA.gov.

We Can Help Senior Veterans Stay Connected

A ride and good company can make porch visits, Veterans Day ceremonies, and potluck gatherings easier for veterans to enjoy. Senior Helpers West San Gabriel Valley helps seniors in Los Angeles, Montebello, El Monte, Monterey Park, and Rosemead stay active and connected at home. Our caregivers can drive for seniors, help them cook a meal to share, and keep them company on the days in between. Contact us to learn more about our in-home care services.