Tips for Caregivers: How to Start the Conversation About Your Senior's Worsening Condition

There are so many things to consider when your loved one's health declines. It can be overwhelming and stressful, especially if they're not open to discussing it yet. But putting off the conversation could lead to complications down the road. Being proactive now means you're more likely to have a plan in place before an unexpected medical emergency occurs or before your loved one is too ill or frail to make their own decisions. We recommend that families begin the conversation as early as possible, and here's how:

Consider the Type of Care for Your Loved One

When deciding on the type of care for your loved ones, consider their needs, abilities, and preferences. Some living communities provide extensive medical services for residents with special needs. In contrast, others focus on memory care and dementia treatment programs. 

Assisted living facilities offer both independent living and assistance with daily activities like bathing or dressing. These may be good choices for people who need a little help but still want to live independently.

Also, consider the cost of care. Charges vary depending on location and other factors such as meals, private rooms or shared rooms, and amenities like pools or fitness centers. Try to factor in expected fees such as rent/mortgage payments and unexpected ones. This helps you know how much money each month will go towards paying those bills before signing anything legal.

Be Present and Pay Attention to Non-verbal Cues

The first step in communicating with your loved one is to take it slow. When you're planning to talk to them about their worsening condition, ensure you're always present and willing to listen. This means:

• Listening as they speak
• Watching for signs of fatigue or boredom while they speak
• Observing nonverbal cues like facial expression or posture 
• Taking breaks for both parties to compose themselves before continuing with the discussion

Let Your Loved Ones Know They’re Not Alone 

If your loved one is in a deteriorating condition, they must know they are not alone. You can help the loved one decide by supporting and guiding them through decision-making. It's also important not to assume your beloved will be happy with your decision. Suppose they have dementia or Alzheimer's. In that case, their mental health may make it difficult for them to understand/accept what is happening to their body.

You mustn't make your loved one feel guilty for not making a decision right now. Instead, reassure them that they have time and support from family members who care about their well-being.

Break Down the Conversation Into Smaller Steps

You may find the conversation too overwhelming, and you don't know where to start. Here are some tips for breaking down a difficult subject into smaller steps:

1. Talk about what happened in the past rather than trying to predict what will happen. For example: "You've had trouble walking lately," rather than "you'll probably need a wheelchair soon."
2. Be honest with your loved ones by acknowledging their competence and independence while also letting them know how much help they may need. 

Conclusion

We hope this article has given you the tips and tools when talking to your loved ones about their health. We're here to help with home care services, including Alzheimer's, dementia, and Parkinson's care. Our care line guarantees friendly daily living activities and customizable companionship to suit your older person's needs. We are available in Milwaukee, Glendale, Brookfield, and Germantown. Contact Senior Helpers Milwaukee at (414) 228-4600 for a top-class assisted living experience.