How to Talk to Extended Family About Getting Flu Shots and Vaccines Before the Holidays
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How to Talk to Extended Family About Getting Flu Shots and Vaccines Before the Holidays

Despite overwhelming evidence that vaccinations are safe and effective, many people still have doubts and concerns about vaccinations. Flu vaccinations save millions of lives each year. It limits the virus's spread and reduces its ability to mutate into dangerous variants. As the festivities approach, as a host, it is essential to talk to flu vaccination-hesitant family members about the need to get vaccinated.

A Guide to Keeping the Conversation Going Without Triggering an Argument

Talking to extended family about getting flu shots could devolve into heated arguments. However, the following tips will make the conversation more manageable.

Do Not Lecture, Listen

Listening is one way to build trust and encourage guests, especially seniors, to take flu shots. As a host, be willing to listen to the family member's concerns about taking the vaccine. They may have particular reasons for being reluctant to get the influenza vaccines. Some refuse due to their political identity, while others may have a long-standing distrust of healthcare institutions. Validate a senior's concern and do not make assumptions about the barrier.

Mind Your Tone

When making the conversation, do not get emotional or irritated if they do not want to get the vaccination. Instead, dial down your reactivity and do not make threats. Be compassionate when having the conversation. Acknowledge that only some guests are on board with getting a flu vaccination.

Be Empathetic

Use comments like" I love you and do not want to lose you to a flu infection." Tell seniors that vaccination is a way to protect themselves against catching the flu. Try explaining to them that their choice impacts their health and the people they care most about in family gatherings whose immune systems are compromised.

Share Accurate Data and Medical Advice

Convincing a skeptical senior to take vaccination is a difficult task. Bring plenty of backup information if you want to change their opinion on the topic. Remember, shaming their choices does not work, instead, lay down the facts and let them decide. Counter misinformation about flu shots with accurate facts.

Tell a Compelling Testimonial

Acknowledging your anxieties when you took the vaccine will encourage reluctant seniors to take flu vaccination. If a family member is unsure whether or not to get vaccinated, a compelling testimonial from you will go a long way to building their confidence. As a host, highlight the positive experiences with the influenza vaccine and build the family member's confidence in vaccination.

Use Simple Vocabulary

Avoid using jargon, as it can result in misinformation and misinterpretation. Seniors may need help understanding academic jargon. Choose clear and straightforward vocabulary while describing the risks of the illness. Frame your message so seniors can understand, and use positive and reassuring messages rather than negative ones. For example, it is better to say, "by deciding to get a flu shot, you minimize your chances of getting the flu." This is more effective than saying, "only 1% of vaccinated people experience side effects."

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