Father's Day is a time to celebrate and honor the special bond we share with our dads. This should be no different for those with a father who has dementia. Although there may be challenges and obstacles to navigate, it is important to remember that our fathers are still very much present and deserving of love and attention. This Senior Helpers blog post discusses how to approach celebrating Father's Day with a father who has dementia and make it a day to remember.
How to Navigate Potential Triggers
It is important to be mindful of potential triggers that could cause confusion, agitation, or distress when planning a celebration for Father's Day with a dad who has dementia. Common triggers for individuals with dementia may include loud noises, large crowds, unfamiliar surroundings, or sudden changes in routine.
To minimize the risk of any issues arising, make sure to plan your celebration around your father's preferences and needs. This might involve spending your day in a familiar and quiet setting, limiting the number of guests, or maintaining a consistent routine throughout the day. Remember that flexibility and adaptability are key. If something does not go as planned, be prepared to adjust accordingly.
How to Minimize Stress While Having Fun
To create a fun celebration that is also low-stress for both you and your father with dementia, focus on simplicity and familiarity. Plan activities that align with his interests and can be easily understood. Some examples may include watching a favorite movie, enjoying a meal together, or taking a walk in a familiar park. You may also want to involve your father in the planning process, as his input helps ensure the day resonates with him and feels personalized.
Encourage family members to be patient and understanding during the celebration. Try to keep the day's experiences positive and cheerfully memorable for your father. You might want to share stories, look at old photographs, or reminisce about past Father's Days together. Keep in mind that what matters most is making your father feel loved and appreciated.
What to Expect During the Celebration
During the celebration, your father's behavior and emotions may change. He might become confused, agitated, or withdrawn. It is smart to be prepared for these unexpected situations and to be understanding and supportive in response. Try to remain calm and patient, and reassure your father if he becomes distressed. If necessary, adjust the celebration plans to accommodate his needs and comfort.
How to Adapt for Early and Later Stages of Dementia
The way you celebrate Father's Day may need to change as dementia progresses. For fathers in the early stages of dementia, the celebration will likely be similar to previous years. Only slight modifications to minimize potential triggers and stress might be called for. However, more significant adaptations may be necessary for fathers in the later stages of dementia. This could involve simplifying the celebration even further or engaging in one-on-one activities that are more familiar and comforting to him. It is important to be aware of your father's current stage of dementia and adjust the celebration accordingly.
Senior Helpers Can Help Make Father's Day Special
Senior Helpers offers seniors and their families quality in-home care services customized to meet individual needs. If you live in Kailua, Waikiki, Kahala, or Manoa and are in need of professional support and advice, don't hesitate to reach out to Senior Helpers Honolulu-Kahala-Kailua. Our compassionate team is here to help make this Father's Day one to cherish.