Valentine's Day is a holiday that many of us look forward to each year. However, it can be difficult when your partner has dementia and they no longer remember the memories or activities you used to share together on this special day. Still, with a little bit of creativity, you can make every Valentine's Day an extra-special one for them and yourself. Keep reading for Valentine's Day tips from the team at Senior Helpers Folsom-Granite Bay.
Acknowledge that Celebrating Might Look Different This Year
Recognize the Challenges
Dementia can make celebrating Valentine's Day tougher for a couple, as activities that you used to do with your partner may no longer be possible or enjoyable. Maybe you shared a special date at their favorite restaurant in years past, but now due to dietary restrictions or mobility challenges, that isn't an option anymore. Or perhaps you both have always lived by certain romantic traditions such as sending cards or exchanging gifts—but now communications are difficult and it's hard for them to understand what is being celebrated.
Remember It Can Still Be Enjoyed
Don't let yourself feel angry, sad, or frustrated if these challenges prevent you from conducting traditional activities on Valentine's Day. Channel these feelings into creative new ways of celebrating instead! You don't need to give up the prospect of enjoying this day—you just need to make some adjustments.
Craft a Meaningful Experience
Make a Memory Book
Create an album full of old photos and memories that you could look over together this Valentine's Day. Remembering these pleasant moments will bring joy and comfort to your loved one living with dementia, while also allowing you to savor these nostalgic little reminders yourself.
Play Music
Music has been known to bring people immense happiness in times of sadness and sorrow alike, so why not surprise your partner on Valentine's day by playing some of their favorite music? This can be anything from soft melodies they used to play around the house in their younger days to modern-day tunes they love. This activity stimulates cognitive functions such as memory recollection and triggers feelings of happiness, both of which positively benefit your senior partner.
Take a Walk
Lastly, enjoy a simple stroll outdoors (weather permitting). There is nothing quite like the fresh air and sights and sounds found in nature. Such simple exercises lasting 30 minutes or less can increase your senior partner's overall well-being on all levels – emotional, mental, and physical. It also creates the perfect opportunity for you and your senior partner to simply enjoy each other's company. Isn't that what this holiday is all about?
Senior Helpers Folsom-Granite Bay can Help You Celebrate
Valentine's Day is a special day meant to be spent with the person who means the most to you. While it might look different this year due to your partner's dementia, there are still ways for you to celebrate meaningfully together. By planning creative activities such as making memory books or playing beloved music, Senior Helpers Folsom-Granite Bay believes that couples living with dementia can make this Valentine's Day just as great and cherished as ever. Contact us today to learn more about our services in Folsom, Loomis, Orangevale, Penryn, Rocklin, and Granite Bay.