Some seniors become homebound due to their physical health or other circumstances. Visiting loved ones after they become homebound can be intimidating, especially if they don't feel comfortable receiving visitors. This can be a challenge even if you know they are struggling with isolation. You don't want your visit to seem patronizing or contrived, and your senior doesn't want to be seen as an inconvenience. However, visits are important for helping homebound relatives feel accepted and supported. Visits give them a boost and remind family members of the importance of relationships in later years. Even short visits of just an hour or two can be memorable experiences that will stay with both parties for a long time.
In this article, we'll discuss three reasons to visit your homebound loved one and how to do so in a compassionate, supportive way.
Finding New Ways to Connect
Regular visits can be about finding new ways to connect. While homebound seniors may not have access to some of their favorite pastimes, you can help them discover new ones. Ask about their interests and share your interests. Cooking a simple dish or reading together can be a great way to bond over new experiences. Other activities might include learning a new game or completing a puzzle.
Offering a Little Help
Doing some light chores can be a great way to have more regular visits. If your loved one is comfortable receiving help, try doing things like helping sort the mail, taking care of a beloved pet, or helping them get to appointments. Before offering help, have an honest conversation about whether they are willing and comfortable with your assistance. Agree on tasks that would be helpful before you visit. Show respect for their wishes and only pitch in if they feel comfortable.
Providing Companionship and Moral Support
Recently homebound seniors may be struggling with feelings of isolation and loneliness. Visits can provide a point of connection and help show empathy. To avoid appearing patronizing during these visits, focus on their abilities and strengths rather than the restrictions or difficulties they face. Have new conversations with your loved one. Ask questions about their life and expertise, and listen to the answers intently. Focus on topics that bring joy and provide relief from any monotony of their daily routine. The back and forth of conversation is an easy way to create meaningful bonds. You may end up hearing about life experiences that you otherwise would have never learned about. At the same time, your loved one will feel seen and heard.
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Supporting your recently homebound loved one with regular visits will help them avoid feeling isolated and can even give you new ways to connect. Senior Helpers San Antonio provides personalized care for senior adults in and around the San Antonio, Helotes, Alamo Heights, Kerrville, Castroville, Converse, Floresville, La Vernia, Von Ormy, and Poteet areas. For help with other caregiving services for homebound seniors, from grocery shopping to household chores, contact us today.